Episode 8

8. Taking the Leap Before You’re “Ready” and Overcoming Feelings of Inadequacy

Published on: 2nd May, 2023

Do you feel held back from doing something because you don’t feel like you’re ready or good enough?

Are you feeling called, but unqualified?

What is keeping you from taking that first step toward your dream? 

On this episode of Confidence Counsel, Monica dives into feelings of inadequacy and why this concept of not "feeling ready" is something that we need to consciously rid ourselves of when it comes to the pursuit of our dreams. During this episode, Monica offers a number of mental reframes and action steps that you can start doing and thinking about today to help you work through those feelings of inadequacy, so that you can get on your way to making your goals, visions, and ambitions come to life.

  • 00:00 Introduction
  • 02:45 Come to terms with your excuse
  • 05:05 You will never feel ready
  • 06:15 Tame your inner critic
  • 07:10 The power of positive affirmations
  • 09:25 Stop comparing yourself to others
  • 11:30 You are your harshest critic
  • 13:00 God does not call the qualified, he qualifies the called

App mentioned during the episode: I am

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Confidence Counsel
Embrace your most authentic self and take bold action toward your dream life!
This show is designed for ambitious women, who despite having a great life, just KNOW that they’re destined for more. Whether you aren’t sure what that next level is- or you have an idea, but the vision feels out of reach- this podcast is for you!

Each week Monica Burkoth, a successful trial lawyer, mom, life coach and wife, will lead honest and inspiring conversations with experts, entrepreneurs, authors and spiritual teachers on topics such as personal development, career, mindfulness, spirituality, health, family, and more. This show will provide you with actionable steps to help you feel more confident, motivated and inspired to embrace your authentic self, get out of your comfort zone, and take bold action toward your dream life.

Are you ready to elevate your life? ALL RISE.

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Monica Burkoth

Monica Burkoth is a successful trial attorney who lives in Chicago with her husband and two children. For the past ten years, Monica has dedicated her professional career to the law. For years, she has been been recognized by multiple publications as an "Emerging Lawyer" , "Rising Star" and "One to Watch". In 2022, Monica was named one of the top forty attorneys under the age of 40, a very prestigious recognition among the legal community.

After becoming a mom in 2020, Monica became inspired to find a way to channel her career success into life success. In addition to working full-time as a trial lawyer and being a mom of a 2 and 1 year old, Monica founded this podcast as a way to connect, inspire and motivate other women to live their best lives. This podcast combines Monica's passions for storytelling, self development, modern spirituality and female empowerment.